1. Put your life on hold and don’t enjoy it now, because you believe the solution lies in your future.
2. Feel more desperate and attached to getting pregnant.
3. Blame yourself and your body.
This thinking creates a disconnect between your mind and body, even though you think you’re being productive.
Remember, this is not your fault. This is just the way that women have been conditioned to think.
Can you take a moment to let that sink in?
“You helped me realize that I was subconsciously self-sabotaging my chances every month. Keep up the wonderful things you are doing for women all over the world. I just found out I’m pregnant!”
“Before joining FMBM I was feeling extremely isolated on our fertility journey. I had experienced several consecutive losses with no real answers. I decided to join to have a sense of community during such an isolating time. It was the best decision I had made along our fertility journey at that point. I feel the biggest transformation for me was allowing myself to feel all the feelings and Spenser and this community helped validate them. Instead of just jumping into “what’s next” I actually sat in the grief and worked through really tough moments while utilizing the tools Spenser provided during the program. Talking questions out with Spenser during calls I had so many “light bulb” moments and I truly can’t thank her enough.
Don’t hesitate, jump right in, I promise it’s worth it. The tools will help you with so many scenarios throughout life. You won’t be the same person leaving the program as you were when you walked in. I promise you will be a better version of yourself!”
“The fertility journey felt scary because I wasn’t sure if I would ever be able to have a baby or not, and life felt too busy.
Well I definitely made progress on my fertility journey because I am pregnant! But more than that, I became more comfortable with uncertainty, receiving, and surrender, so that I’m able to enjoy the pregnancy more despite the times when I feel nervous. I also feel more at peace in the rest of my life. I learned to navigate my perfectionism and anxiety and start developing my worthiness from inside rather than by constantly trying to compete and prove myself.
I can honestly say this was one of the most life-changing things I’ve ever done. It helped me with so many aspects of my life, not just my fertility. I am leaving the program pregnant (and I do believe the program helped me get here), but I was already happier and more at peace in my life even before the pregnancy happened.”
“I had spent more than a year compulsively researching and trying everything on earth to “make it happen”, until my body suddenly begged me to stop. I somehow felt there was more to what was happening to me, I stopped asking “why” and started to wonder “what for”..?
I joined the program right when I felt ready to soak it in. It cracked my heart wide open and nothing but love, growth and absolute self-compassion came out of it.
We had decided we would try our first round of IVF this October and were waiting for my period to come so that I could start with the treatment, but for the first time ever… it didn’t show up. I’m now 6 weeks pregnant.
I cannot find the words to thank you Spenser Brassard for shining the light and providing the most amazing soundtrack for my journey. The truth is, despite the ups and downs, I fell in love with this process way before I saw my two pink lines.”
“When I found Spenser, I had just miscarried at 8 weeks after an IIVF transfer. It was such an unbelievably difficult time. I’m an OBGYN physician in my 40’s and Spenser’s coaching was life-changing. She is amazing at what she does and it took a lot of energy and time to get out of my medical mindset.
I can’t say enough about how much her sessions and coaching have been life-changing not just on this fertility journey, but in life in general. I write this on the eve of my induction day at 38 weeks pregnant. I have every risk factor for several complications in pregnancy and I have not developed one. I am still amazed at how the universe is working with me.
Mamas, if you’re thinking about joining Spenser’s program, I can’t recommend it enough. Thank you Spenser for the special work you do.”
Board Certified OBGYN Physician in New Jersey
“I was obsessed with finding out what was wrong with me. I was convinced that it was my fault we weren’t pregnant, and I lived with so much guilt and shame. My journey was really painful, constant dissapointment an loss with no explanation. I finally joined when I realized what I was doing wasn’t working, I wanted another way and I needed help.
I made so much progress with perfectionism and restriction. I healed my relationship with myself, God, and my husband. I have so many tools now to be an amazing Mom and I have so much more confidence in myself and my intuition. I am able to listen to my body on a much deeper level and have such an appreciation for it instead of hate blame and shame.
This program is such a a worth while investment for your whole life. If Spenser’s Podcast resonates with you, it is right for you. Imagine how much money you spend on fertility. This will not only improve your fertility (I am proof) but it will improve your happiness and well being. ”
I combine world-class knowledge with transformational coaching inside an empowering community of women who are walking the same path with you.
No more focusing on unsolicited advice from friends and family. You’ll be surrounded and supported by women who truly get it—including me!
“My fertility journey before FMBM was one of panic, self blame and self pity. I felt like I had no control of what was going on, and bounced from one rigid regime to another. It felt like a game that was impossible for me to win, and I had lost my sense of self and any source of happiness outside of getting pregnant
After joining, I have developed self trust and a sense of self worth that I could only have dreamed of this time last year. I am also much more relaxed, and much more comfortable with uncertainty.
This WILL be the greatest gift you can give to yourself. It will open your eyes to a possible way of life you can live that is SO MUCH kinder, calmer, more joyful and with more connection than you are now. That you will gain a sisterhood that will walk you out of this darkest time in your life, and that ( though this is hard to imagine) although you will become a mother one day and this course will unblock your resistance to this, when you look back on your time, the result of your personal journey will be SOO much more than just a positive pregnancy test!”
“The modules and lessons have completely transformed my thoughts and feelings around my personal journey. I started to reclaim my life. Not only did the program give me the skills to cope with the ups and downs of the fertility journey, but it transformed my overall outlook on life. I’m now 10 weeks pregnant!”
“Before FMBM, I thought I was listening to my body but i really wasnt. I was constantly freaking out about what the “right” thing was to do on the journey. I was super caught up in there being one right way to baby. I decided to join because I was tired of feeling like crap and like I wasn’t doing enough.
This program really changed all areas of my life. It changed how I think about everything. Rather than thinking everything thought I have is true or a sign of something I realize now they are just thoughts and not everything I think is true. It helped me completely transform my business and my journey as an entrepreneur. It also helped me eventually let go of alllll the rules around fertility that I was imposing on myself without even really realizing it. I think I finally have been able to really see who I am and continue to learn what works best for me, even if it is completely different than cultural norms.”
“After 2 years of trying everything to get my body on board (eating well, exercise, natural medicine, chiro, acupuncture, you name it, I tried it) I took the leap to journey into my mind. I was nervous and vulnerable, but so determined to feel empowered and light again.
I’m happy to say I had a breakthrough while completing your course. Within 2 months, I was finally pregnant! This journey has been one I will never forget!”
“I was feeling lonely on the journey. Everyone around me was either pregnant easily or currently pregnant.
The biggest transformation I had was finding belief in myself. I gained confidence to shine. I didn’t need to talk every week. When I needed Spenser’s help I asked for it. And she coached me through in exactly the way I needed. I found so much value in hearing the questions of fellow peers.
My sex life improved. I went from enjoying sex with my husband to LOVING sex with my husband. We don’t limit our lovemaking to the fertile window and a few days here and there post fertile window like we were doing pre FMBM, we are active all month long and the pressure to “try” is gone.
Bottom line is I believe that this program, the coaching calls especially, helped me progress through the “goo” on my way to become a butterfly. I trust someday, possibly soon, I will be sending you a message to confirm my pregnancy.
Good things are happening for me, all around me and to me.
DO IT! It is absolutely the most valuable investment I have ever made in myself. ”
“We’ve had all kinds of tests and been diagnosed with “unexplained infertility”. In my rock bottom, something led me to you. Your program is what I needed most. Learning how to see myself as whole instead of treating myself as a failure, was what changed everything for me. I’m now 18 weeks pregnant!”
“Spenser’s course has been truly transformative for me. Before starting it, I had little awareness about the many ways in which my emotions and my physical body are intertwined. Working through the modules feels like gradually waking up new parts of yourself and seeing life from a totally different perspective.
My fertility journey has been complex and after losing a fallopian tube, I feared my ability to conceive had been even further reduced. I was both shocked and delighted to discover that I became pregnant while working through the course!!! It has been an absolute godsend in helping me work through doubt, fear and anxiety throughout the early stages of pregnancy. Spenser, thank you for pouring your heart, soul and wisdom into this amazing course.”
“In my life before the program, I felt completely disjointed/disassociated from life in general. The few feelings I did feel were usually envy from comparison or anger at the way things had turned out, obsessed with timing and attached to a certain timeline.
Realizing that my worth wasn’t attached to anything other than myself was a huge take away. Through weekly calls, I was able to detach from comparison and judging myself and my life and rediscover my true self – feelings and all! Letting go of expectation made me feel like I’d lost 20 pounds! Although we went through fertility treatment I didn’t feel as attached to the outcome.
We were initially concerned about the investment into the program, as we’d never spent money on anything of this nature before however it is truly the best money I’ve ever spent. It honestly has changed every aspect of my life through my mindset and equipped me with tools I will continue to use forever.”
“I’m 39. I’ve had 3 miscarriages. We wanted to try IVF one more time and it worked! Thanks to you, I’m able to keep my mind at ease while waiting for my ultrasound. I focused on surrender, learned how to be okay with uncertainty and accept whatever the outcome is. Today, we got to see a perfectly sized baby and a heartbeat. Thank you for the work you do. You are literally getting me through this.”
“God is good. Tested this morning and I got a positive! I’ve stopped doing everything and just focused on my mindset and celebrated ME! This work is truly magical!”
“Just wanted to share with you how very thankful I am for you and your program because I just found out that I am PREGNANT! This program has absolutely changed my life and I couldn’t have done this without you!
After a year and a half of trying everything imaginable, this was the first cycle I really gave up everything I had been trying before and just let the universe take over—no obsessing and here we are! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me get here! You are changing lives with the beautiful work you do and I am eternally grateful!”
Maybe you’ve lost trust in this journey. Or you aren’t sure if you’re ready to take the next step in yourself and your fertility journey. Let’s talk about it.
Absolutely not. Applying for Fertility Mind-Body Mastery is like saying: This work is resonating with me. It all sounds exciting and it’s giving me hope. I’m interested, but would like to learn more about your proven process and how the program works.
It’s safe to say that many women discover me after nothing else has worked – to finally discover a process that just feels right. It feels simple, exciting and aligned with who they are. They feel this in both the program and the amazing community.
One of the huge WHY’s behind me starting this program is because when I was on the journey – everyone was offering methods and treatments the caused me to restrict the very essence of who I was. IE. Stop doing this. Stick to logic and focus on the stats. Keep working hard. Be more perfect, don’t have fun and then you’ll get pregnant. For me, feeling miserable and not getting pregnant was proof that it wasn’t working for me.
So I created a whole new way of approaching fertility from a holistic perspective that gets down to the ROOT of what’s really going on inside of your mind and body. To support you greatly in getting pregnant naturally, or to assist you beautifully into your next treatment.
Hear me loud and clear when I say that unlike conventional fertility treatments, this program will NOT be all for nothing. Because the goal isn’t just to get pregnant. You’re gonna learn how to create success in ALL areas of your life – not just baby. If you do the work, you CAN’T fail at this.
Busy? You’re in good company, because many of the women in the program are professionals with demanding careers.
This approach is perfect for you if you’re trying to create this baby without adding more to-do’s to your already full plate. The material is self-paced and you can go as slow or as fast as you want.
If you feel like you’re being pulled into so many different directions, this program is where you sort all that overwhelm out. As a result, you’ll strengthen your mind-body connection and increase your fertility.
Within the first month, you’ll learn how to manage your life in a whole new way – without sacrificing any of the things in your life that matter most to you.
Then you got exactly what you wanted 😊
All of the lessons and tools you learn inside of this program will take you into conception, pregnancy, motherhood and beyond.
“Before joining, I was feeling tired, I was mentally exhausted from trying so hard on the fertility journey, trying to figure out what I was missing, which diet/program/supplement was going to be the secret piece. But mostly, I was struggling with the mental side of TTC, the constant cycle of hope, grief, disappointment month after month.
It was during my 2 rounds of IVF while in the FMBM program that was really transformative. I was able to go through the physically draining procedures, medications and injections with ease, grace and even joy! But mentally I felt calm, I felt peaceful about the process and through the modules & coaching from Spenser really learnt to believe in myself and my body, trust the Universe and surrender to the timeline of it all. It was an incredibly spiritually empowering experience.
You won’t regret joining for a second. The whole course is brilliantly put together, with just the right amount of content for any fertility related question or fear. The group coaching each week was a real highlight, learning not just from Spenser and my individual questions, but questions from all the other women – that I didn’t know I needed answering!”
“Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your words of wisdom, courage and support. Who knew that I would be having my first baby at 44? But here we are! You believed in me from our first conversation and I know that everything we learned in the course helped me to have a successful pregnancy!”
“I found Spenser’s work after miscarrying. After this, it felt like everyone I knew was pregnant, but me. I ditched the apps and started journaling. Hearing your voice and advice walked me off of the cliff so many times. We just found out we’re pregnant! I can’t even tell you how much you’ve helped me and the relief I felt knowing that what I was experiencing is not only normal, but manageable.”
“Have you ever been in a spot where you’ve tried everything imaginable to solve a problem and nothing seems to be working? You’re spending all your time, worry and hard earned money trying to get the the thing you can see so clearly in your mind but keeps eluding you. That is how I was feeling on my fertility journey before I found Spenser. After just over 2 months working with Spenser I became pregnant.”
You belong here, mama-bear.
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